Hi Marcel,
In general the inference rule mechanism is exactly what you need to express different meta-properties over relationships in your data, such as those you mention. We’re still working on it and it’s not properly documented on our website yet, but take a look our blog post for some quick examples: https://blog.grakn.ai/how-to-find-information-that-is-not-there-de0d66360179#.jzsbnqkzx
Note also that in case of symmetric relations there’s also more straightforward way. Basically, our n-relations are unordered tuples of role-role-player pairs. So if you define a symmetric relation, say neighbouring, with only one role neighbour, and assert:
(neighbour: person1, neighbour:person2) isa neighbouring
and query for:
match (neighbour:$x, neighbour:$y) isa neighbouring
you will get two matches:
person1, person2
person2, person1
which is exactly what you would expect from a symmetric relation.
Szymon